In need of advice...

Another love story bites the dust. She doesn't understand, she read all the books, know all the theory. Can someone tell her where she goes wrong? She either does too much or not enough, how can she know? If she is herself, she isn't good enough, if she pretend to be another, she is too much.
Love is a complicated business. He wants her blonde, he wants her red, but never herself. He wants her whore or pure, slave or mistress, it's most confusing.
She runs back to the Library. Maybe she'll find the answer in another book.
Who knows?